• Japan: The Gold Standard for Mobile Manners



    Except for this guy, apparently...

    I took this photo Tuesday evening in the ANA Lounge at Haneda Airport while waiting for my flight home. To be fair, it's entirely possible that the subject of the photo doesn't read Japanese, English, Chinese or Korean. And perhaps if I had put the sign within his field of view instead of hoarding it for my photo opp I might not have had to endure half of his conversation for twenty minutes. But that's not my point—my point here is that indiscretions like this really stand out in Japan, because the mobile manners of Japanese people are generally very good.

    Fans of Top Gear might remember this episode where Richard Hammond is shushed on the Shinkansen for taking a call on speaker phone:



    (If the time stamp didn't work scrub ahead to 5 minutes and 2 seconds...)

    There are signs all over bullet trains—in English—asking people not to use their mobile phones, which reasonable people understand to mean to not use them for voice calls, and certainly not voice calls using your phone's loudspeaker. It may seem harsh, but I was able to enjoy a two-hour train ride to Kyoto and back on a crowded train that to my North American ears seemed nearly silent.

    So what do Japanese people do when they want to call someone in a public or shared space? They seek somewhere to make their call that's away from other people so as to not disturb them. Crazy, I know... In the case of my airport lounge at Haneda there is a defined area specifically for people to make voice calls. Conversely, at a transit lounge in Vancouver the girlfriend and I had to seek out the only tiny corner where people were asked not to use their phones.

    As the jet lag wanes I will gradually become reaccustomed to walking down the street surrounded by people yelling into their phones, at their smartwatches, at Google, Siri, at each other and at no one in particular. If you live in a big city all this is perfectly normal—unless that city happens to be in Japan. If you ever want to give your ears a break, to hear what good mobile manners sounds like, you should check it out!

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    This article was originally published in forum thread: Japan: The Gold Standard for Mobile Manners started by acurrie View original post
    Comments 10 Comments
    1. Ipse's Avatar
      Ipse -
      See? I knew you're going to come back with stories
      And yes, what is wrong with the Japanese and the respect for other people? Geez...since when we're supposed to care about others? Be obnoxious and intrusive...this is the NA way.
    1. dragon2knight's Avatar
      dragon2knight -
      I only wish that would happen in NYC subways....it's the main reason I drive
    1. NotABiot's Avatar
      NotABiot -
      Is it so hard that when someone else is talking on the phone, to think "this is not my business", and simply ignore it? No different from two individuals nearby having a conversation with each other.
    1. Breaking Good's Avatar
      Breaking Good -
      I didn't know anyone in the U.S. still made phone calls. Everything I get is from e-mail (work) or text (personal).

      The reason I think they still make phone calls in Japan is that the Japanese cellular carriers don't have reasonable unlimited text plans like we do in the U.S. Most plans still charge by the text.
    1. tfusr19's Avatar
      tfusr19 -
      Are you freaking kidding ....... you must not be in the US ........ You don't see idiots driving with their handset it one hand or talking in public?

      Quote Originally Posted by Breaking Good View Post
      I didn't know anyone in the U.S. still made phone calls. Everything I get is from e-mail (work) or text (personal).

      The reason I think they still make phone calls in Japan is that the Japanese cellular carriers don't have reasonable unlimited text plans like we do in the U.S. Most plans still charge by the text.
    1. tfusr19's Avatar
      tfusr19 -
      And now our freaking airlines want to encourage phone calls on flights ......... all about the money and screw customer piece of mind I guess.

      Quote Originally Posted by NotABiot View Post
      Is it so hard that when someone else is talking on the phone, to think "this is not my business", and simply ignore it? No different from two individuals nearby having a conversation with each other.
    1. NotABiot's Avatar
      NotABiot -
      Quote Originally Posted by tfusr19 View Post
      And now our freaking airlines want to encourage phone calls on flights ......... all about the money and screw customer piece of mind I guess.
      They already allow individuals to talk to each other on planes. If you don't like it, ignore it. The "manners" concern here is those who obsess with others' conversations.

      (I simply think the airlines should butt out one way or another, and only stop SHOUTING)
    1. tfusr19's Avatar
      tfusr19 -
      I don't get your point ....... and how do you stop the shouting? It's one thing to hear both sides of the conversation and another to hear half as in a phone conversation. It's not so easy for many to ignore ........ thus the issue being discussed. I could tell you to ignore shouting too ..... where do we draw the line on what is ignoreable?

      Quote Originally Posted by NotABiot View Post
      They already allow individuals to talk to each other on planes. If you don't like it, ignore it. The "manners" concern here is those who obsess with others' conversations.

      (I simply think the airlines should butt out one way or another, and only stop SHOUTING)
    1. NotABiot's Avatar
      NotABiot -
      Quote Originally Posted by tfusr19 View Post
      I don't get your point ....... and how do you stop the shouting? It's one thing to hear both sides of the conversation and another to hear half as in a phone conversation. It's not so easy for many to ignore ........ thus the issue being discussed. I could tell you to ignore shouting too ..... where do we draw the line on what is ignoreable?
      I mean, talking is already allowed on airplanes....

      Why get all bent out of shape if someone is talking to an object at 60 decibels while not getting bent out of shape if someone is talking to a nearby person at 60 decibels?
    1. DRNewcomb's Avatar
      DRNewcomb -
      I remember that in Japanese phone instructions, switching your phone to silent was translated into English as "Manners mode". It's very quiet riding on the Shinkansen with the scenery whizzing past.
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